5 Reasons Why and How to Get Them in a Loving Relationship

Love is abstract. It does not have a proper definition. But still it rules the world. No one can live without love-be it love towards the partner, love for friends, love for parents, love for family, love for dreams and love for self.

Among all these variations of love, the love relationship between a boy and a girl is quite complex. No love relationship can exist without proper commitment level from both parties. Without commitment to the relationship one does not feel the emotions of the opposite partner. You must be committed to carry on the relationship with an element of enduring love and care. Only then you can expect a healthy relationship with your partner.

It is a very common scenario in the world that men are less committed in a relationship. They like to jump from one place to another on a regular basis. It is yet to be derived whether it has some genetic and evolutionary reasons or just a patriarchy related side-effect. Whatever the reason it is a fact that men are less committed compared to their female counterparts.

But as have been told already without proper commitment any relationship is a failure in itself. Both the parties involved share responsibilities of such a disaster. The man must behave in a responsible manner to carry on the relationship with a solid level of commitment. If he is not committed then he needs to work on it. On the other hand the girls should understand the situation well and behave accordingly.

They should try to convince and explain the male counterparts that commitment is necessary to carry on their love forever. Efforts must be on to understand that a lot of men are afraid of commitment in a relationship. So the girls need to play an active role to shred away this scariness from the minds of the men.

Some reasons can be listed along with their remedies of men’s scariness and lack of commitment in a relationship.

Natural immaturity of the mind
A lot of men fail to act as a committed creature just because of their low age group. It needs time to understand the intricacies of life. Mental maturity is very much necessary for a commitment in a relationship.

Bad experiences
Men with sad broken relationships find it tough to assimilate in a new relationship. He becomes afraid of commitment. Proper care and comforting behaviour by the new girl is the key to a successful relationship with such men.

Aggressive behaviour of the female counterpart
A lot of men are afraid of love relationships for the aggressive role played out by their girls in a regular manner. Moreover girls with a flirty nature push back one’s commitment in the relationship with her.

Lack of self-confidence
Some men are very weak in nature. It is impossible for them to get committed in a relationship. They are a failure in case of taking responsibilities.

Playboy attitude
There are some men who like to play with girls. There is no scope of commitment in such cases.